I’m beginning design work on a new house (Yay a house!) and I’ve been considering what makes for a good one. The internet is now full of everyone’s curated images of their “dream house” on Pinterest or Houzz to name two. Looking at these you might think that good houses all have idyllic locations or master bathrooms the size of handball courts with a walk-in shower AND a garden tub. These are really not so much about a person’s ideal house as they are about an ideal life – one that contains more idle time and a bit of luxury. Above all, one that is different from the real one of work and mundane concerns.
The truth is none of these things is required for a good house, at least not a real one for real people in the midst of regular lives. It doesn’t even have to be beautiful, even though making the world a bit more beautiful is something we should always strive for. To be good, a house really only has to do 1 thing and that’s allow the lifestyle of its inhabitants; and not so much the imaginary lifestyle as the real one. A good house will wrap itself around the daily activities of its occupants, supporting and enabling them without getting in their way. In short, it must fit the lives of its users… but not too closely.
People change. Aspirations change. Kids move away (or come back home!). And we all get older. So instead of a hand in glove fit, I think of it as a hand in mitten fit. A mitten will still fit if you smash your thumb and have it wrapped in gauze. A mitten will still fit even if you lose a finger. Some will even fit either hand. It’s easy to pull off and put back on again to dial a phone number or pick your nose. You can even bring a lucky rabbit’s foot or a handgun cartridge in there with you if you want something to play with.
In a similar way, a good house will allow for the occasional idle moment or small luxury but it will also make room for sewing Halloween costumes or writing school papers or organizing a charity drive. It will have rooms and spaces that are flexible enough to accommodate everything from formal dinner parties to quiet nights at home. It will have plenty of storage space for concealing all the junk of our (let’s face it) cluttered first world lives. It will have bathrooms that are efficient for getting a quick shower when you’re running late for work. And a good house may even have a garden tub. After all it makes a great place to wash the dog.